Conversations that Matter

Conversations that Matter

What matters to you? What big audacious goals do you have? What stops you? What are you afraid of? Can you be true to yourself, kind to yourself?

Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

Discover Brainspotting:

I am excited to announce that I will soon be offering Brainspotting, a groundbreaking therapeutic technique, as part of my practice. Brainspotting is a powerful, focused method that works by identifying, processing, and releasing emotional and physical trauma stored in the body.

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Um… Happy Holidays? 5 Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them

This week, with Thanksgiving, we kick off the Holidays, a wonderful and potentially stressful time! During family holiday gatherings, a mix of personalities and dynamics can sometimes lead to challenging interactions. Being aware of these common behaviors can help you navigate these situations more effectively:

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Fools Rush in Where Angels Fear to Tread

Or, That time we visited the West Bank…
I always thought I would write about this experience but I never did. I’m writing about it now as I reflect on this war in the Middle East and as I see all the marches to “Free Palestine;” the slaughter of 1400 Israelis that started the war somehow overlooked and in some circles celebrated!

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

The Unexpected Dis-invitation: Navigating Intersectional Boundaries

I was recently encouraged by a member of the board, to submit a proposal to speak at a conference dedicated to "Elder Lesbians," an invitation I wholeheartedly accepted with excitement and honor. These opportunities not only allow me to share my expertise but also to listen and learn from those who have been on the front-lines of history, making a path for future generations.

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

Surrogate Partner Therapy in the news

In today’s New York Times, there is an article about Surrogate Partner Therapy. Many learned that this therapy existed when the movie, “The Sessions” hit the theaters in 2012

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

How to Find a Compatible Romantic Partner: A Comprehensive Guide Plus the Role of Vulnerability

There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as everyone's needs and preferences are different. However, there are a few things you can do to increase your chances of finding a compatible romantic partner. 

A therapist can provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your feelings and thoughts about relationships and what you are looking for in a romantic partner. Additionally, they can provide support and guidance to help you to feel confident in your ability to find a partner that is a good fit.

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

Can You Be True To Yourself?

Some days and weeks of therapy sessions seem to have a theme. This is one I often visit with my clients: Can you be true to yourself? Can you do what needs doing, even if others will be disappointed?

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

6 Powerful Reframes to Overcome Self-criticism

Are you a perfectionist?

Do you find your "inner critic" saying things to yourself that you wouldn't say to your worst enemy?

Do you say yes to people when you wish you could say no?

As little girls, we are often raised with messages to "play it safe." The adults in our lives tell us to "be good." Sometimes we're told to "be quiet" or that we "talk too much" or that "we are" too much. We as women hear and worry about too much-ness throughout our lives.  

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

From the therapist’s Bookshelf

What can I say about “Untamed” by Glennon Doyle? When first one client and then another and another tell me they are reading something, I have to check it out! I wasn’t disappointed! Glennon takes us on her journey! I love that since many of my clients and I read the book it gives us a common language, like “We can do hard things!” And we can!

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Introducing our newest office mate

One of my office mates, Salem is the newest member of our staff here. She is in charge of adding comic relief to my day with her antics, and may pop into our zoom room from time to time.

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Paula Kirsch Paula Kirsch

Setting Boundaries

The ability to set boundaries is a vital skill to have for a healthy, happy life! If you find yourself being unable to say “no” to friends, family or…

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