Helping Couples and Individuals Create Joyful Lives, Relationships and Intimacy.


Are you concerned about the lack of intimacy in your relationship?

Does it feel like you can’t ask for what you want in life?

Are you struggling to discover the confidence to be who you are?

Have you tried to solve the problems in your life on your own and realized you need help from someone else?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you have made the right choice by being here.

And I know this is hard. You’ve likely been debating seeking help for months, if not years. But I’m so glad you found me and have taken the courageous step of being here.

"You don't have to get stuck in a negative experience. You don't have to be a victim to external events, or internal emotions. You can use your mind to take charge of how you feel, and how you act."

-Dan Siegel

I’m confident that together we can work to help equip you with the necessary tools to help you face and overcome these challenges. Whether you’re struggling with intimacy problems, lack of communication, or inability to be comfortable in your own skin, it is important that you know you don’t have to be alone in this journey. I have the experience to help you achieve your goals, overcome these struggles, and live a more fulfilling and meaningful life.

I understand no two individuals are the same, and I tailor our sessions together to address challenges unique to you. We will work together to understand the root cause of your struggles and address those issues with long-lasting strategies, helping you get closer to the life you’ve always wanted.

If you’re ready to work towards the life you’ve always wanted, I’m ready when you are.

Contact me today and let’s get to work.

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Learn More About Who I Am

Welcome to my website!  I am here to work with you to facilitate healing, growth and understanding.  Often life seems confusing and unfair. Many of us carry pain from past trauma.  Whether you are a couple or an individual, if you suffer with relationship problems, sexual health issues, anxiety, depression, or other emotional pain I invite you to connect with me.  I would like to help you find the peace and healing you are looking for.

Maybe you have always felt “different,” or like you don’t “fit in,” or you wonder why you can’t find love… Maybe you question your sexual attraction or your gender identity… let’s talk and sort things out together.

I help people accept themselves, become empowered, and thrive!

That is what authentic living is all about!

I welcome you to look around my website and if you feel like the information resonates with you, I invite you to go to my contact page and let’s connect!  Although I have one office in Midtown Detroit and the other office in Ann Arbor, I am currently meeting clients over Zoom due to COVID-19… taking the commute out of our meeting and making meeting even more convenient!  Don’t hesitate!  The sooner we address the issues that you struggle with, the sooner we can ease the discomfort you are feeling!

I look forward to meeting you and walking this path of self-discovery with you as I support you on your journey.

Paula Kirsch, LMSW, CST (AASECT Certified Sex Therapist)

Don't Wait to Get the Help You Need