Build Lasting Connection and Intimacy Through Expert Online Therapy

Find a safe, supportive online space to reconnect with yourself and those you love. Through compassionate, evidence-based teletherapy in Michigan and Connecticut, we’ll work together to strengthen bonds, deepen intimacy, and empower you to feel truly seen and understood.

About Paula – Compassionate, Certified, and Here to Support You

I’m Paula Kirsch, a Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Michigan and Connecticut, specializing in online therapy for individuals and couples, including LGBTQ+ and kink-friendly relationships. My mission is to help you find clarity, strength, and connection—all from the privacy of your home. With years of experience, I’ve created a safe space where you can explore your unique journey with nonjudgmental, affirming support. Whether you’re navigating intimacy, communication, or self-acceptance.

A Personal Note:

Reaching out for help can feel daunting, especially when relationships are strained or self-confidence is low. My goal is to offer empathy, professional guidance, and a judgment-free space where your story is honored. Therapy is your time—a place to feel heard, supported, and empowered every step of the way.

My Core Therapy Services at Authentic Living

SEX THERAPY

Struggling with intimacy, self-confidence, or past trauma? Sex Therapy provides a safe, confidential space to address these issues. Using methods like EMDR and Brainspotting, we’ll explore root causes and build healthy patterns for lasting self-compassion and fulfilling relationships—all online in Michigan and Connecticut.

Couples Therapy

When communication falters, Couples Therapy offers tools to reconnect and resolve conflicts. Using evidence-based methods like the Gottman Relationship Checkup, we’ll work together to rebuild trust and strengthen your bond—all from your own home in Michigan or Connecticut.

LGBTQ+, Kink, and Polyam Affirming Therapy

I provide an open, supportive space for LGBTQ+, kink, and polyamorous individuals and couples. Here, your identity and relationship choices are respected without judgment, helping you find connection and self-acceptance.

Coaching and Support Groups

In addition to therapy, I offer coaching for personal growth and a Divorce Support Therapy Group to help you through life changes. These sessions provide community and guidance to help you move forward with resilience.

Why Choose Authentic Living Psychotherapy?

I provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where your unique journey is respected and valued. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist, I bring extensive online therapy experience to my practice, Authentic Living Psychotherapy. I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples in Michigan and Connecticut build deeper, more fulfilling connections. I combine evidence-based practices with genuine empathy, creating a space where you can feel truly seen and supported.

Benefits of Working with Authentic Living

  • Licensed and Certified: With specialized certifications in Sex Therapy and Couples Therapy, Paula provides professional and reliable support for a range of challenges.

  • Virtual Convenience: Access therapy securely and confidentially from anywhere in Michigan or Connecticut via HIPAA-compliant Zoom sessions.

  • Inclusive and Affirming: LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and kink-friendly clients are welcomed with open arms. Your identity, relationship and personal experiences are honored here.

  • Proven Tools and Techniques: Using effective methods like EMDR, Brain Spotting, and the Gottman Relationship Checkup, Paula offers practical strategies to help you make real, positive changes in your relationships and personal life.

If you’re seeking a therapist who values your unique path and provides compassionate, expert support, Authentic Living Psychotherapy is here for you.

Frequently Asked Questions About Me

  • The initial 15-minute consultation is a relaxed conversation for us to get to know each other. You’ll have a chance to share your needs, and I’ll walk you through my approach to see if we’re a good fit.

  • Yes, absolutely. Each session is conducted through HIPAA-compliant Zoom to keep everything you share private and secure.

  • Wholeheartedly. My practice is inclusive and supportive of all relationship types, including LGBTQI+, polyamorous, and kink-friendly dynamics.


  • It’s simple and secure. I’ll send you a Zoom link before each session. All you need is a quiet, private space, a device with a camera, and a reliable internet connection.

Take the First Step Toward Healing and Connection

Reclaim a sense of closeness, trust, and understanding. Begin your journey with a supportive, no-pressure consultation designed to help you feel truly heard.